Love Is A Choice, And I Am Choosing To Be With You

If there’s something I’ve discovered from assembly somebody you love, it’s that love turns into a selection. You voluntarily select them each second, each hour of the day.

Fairytales and storybooks have gotten all of it fallacious. We are sometimes taught that love is a sense, however emotions are fleeting and unreliable. Emotions will not be a real supply of assist for you or your companion. A relationship can’t be outlined by one thing as unpredictable as your emotions or your feelings within the second.

Due to this fact, love is a selection and I’m selecting to be with you. I’m selecting to like you regardless of how afraid my coronary heart is. I’m selecting to allow you to in no matter what my previous has taught me. I’m selecting to put my coronary heart in your palms and hoping you’ll not break it. I’m selecting to belief that you’ll stay loyal and that you’ll not deliberately damage me. It doesn’t matter what skeletons are in your closet — worst fears, insecurities, or doubts — I’m nonetheless going to decide on you. I’m selecting to decide on you as a result of my coronary heart is aware of I bought fortunate with this one.

I’m selecting to be weak and to let somebody into my guarded, taped-up coronary heart. I’m selecting to heal my jaded edges and the harm that has been left by others as a result of I need to have the ability to select you full-heartedly. I’m selecting to heal so that you just shouldn’t have to hold my baggage — my doubts and fears. 

I’m selecting to get up daily at 4 a.m. to observe the dawn as a result of I need to know why you want sunrises a lot. I’m selecting to accompany you on each journey as a result of I do know you typically really feel lonely and I don’t ever need you to really feel alone. I’m selecting to discover your favourite eating places with you as a result of I do know your love language is high quality time. I’m selecting to assist you thru each endeavour and reassure your insecurities and worries since you selected to do the identical for me.

You’re every little thing to me, and you don’t should be half cherished because of ever-changing emotions. It’s fairly easy: I’m selecting to be with you. As a result of love is a selection.